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Every now and then, it is my great pleasure to step away from my inspirational blogger vibe and step into other areas to write about. A few weeks ago I had the great pleasure of attending Jimmy’s Ormonde for such an experience where sampling their food was all I had to do or so I thought. December 12th, will probably go down as one of the sweetest evenings that I’ve had in the longest time.

A special evening with my daughter Talisa celebrating her Honours Award for Consumer Studies

I am a big believer that food should not cause strife or stress. The sharing of a meal together should bring contentment to both one’s tummy and one’s heart. I like beautiful flavours, that are comfortable to both the tongue and the tummy because I find that when food is pleasant, satisfying and also surprising, then it somehow lends itself to helping people to drop their guards or to come out from the one’s they hide behind. A great meal can be a channel for a wonderful meeting of minds, hearts and souls.

Oreo Milkshake – No Brainer that was my drink of choice

So there I was at Jimmy’s Ormonde with my daughter Talisa and I only knew one other person at the table which was Taryn Victor (she is the author of the blog Diary of a Whimsical Girl and now one of the beautiful people in my life).

The talented and beautiful Taryn Victor and I.

I did not know the other ten guests at all and I was to share a meal with them. I was a little nervous, not knowing what to expect. To start our evening our waiter ran us through the extensive drinks menu. Drinks are a great ice breaker. And yes, it works even for those of us who do not drink alcohol. Jimmy’s does not serve alcohol so it makes it “the place to meet” for those who prefer to be in an alcohol free environment.

I have two weaknesses in life: dancing and eating anything containing Oreo cookies. To my palate’s pleasure Oreo milkshake was one of the drinks on offer. At that precise moment, in my head I heard DJ Khaled and Justin Bieber singing: “You stick out of the crowd, baby, it’s a no-brainer. It ain’t that hard to choose”. You get the idea of how happy I was. Talisa chose a Ferrero Roche milkshake and other guests also chose form the more traditional milkshake flavours to other more inspired flavours.

With the drinks served and everyone easing into the evening, we were ready for the feasting to begin. When the Cheesy Garlic Rolls made its way to the table the “oohing” and “aahing” accompanied by grins as we looked around the table at each other instantly made us all friends. I love a good salad that is not too complicated in its flavour profile when accompanying other dishes. The fresh Greek salad that was served was just that. Uncomplicated and deliciously satisfying.

Cheesy Garlic Roll and Greek Salad

What followed was nothing short of merriment on plates, in glasses and around the table. Jimmy’s Ormonde served up platters of prawns in Jimmy’s signature flavours; Kashmiri and Lemon Butter. The South African spirit of Ubuntu kicked in as everyone made sure that each one of us tasted the different flavours on offer.

“Not” Spicy Prawns for those who can’t handle heat

 

Spicy Prawns for those who need the heat.

If you are someone who loves a good seafood dish, like I do and your better half can’t eat seafood; then Jimmy’s is the place where you can meet each other halfway. In addition to their seafood menu, they also have a selection of chicken and steaks.

Tikka Chicken

I am not a fan of red meat and if I eat it, then I like it to not taste like meat. There are a variety of sauces to choose from when eating chicken or steak at Jimmy’s Ormonde. You can request which sauce you would like your meat to be grilled in. You would be hard pressed to find an eatery as flexible as that.

Jimmy’s sauces are also bottled for purchase.

We had way too much fun and in no time, it was almost eleven o’clock.

My daughter Talisa in the middle with rather accomplished people in the world of food, Amy to her right and Loyiso Mtoba to her left.

Before we left though there was still coffee and dessert to get through. I am not sure how we managed to finish dessert after all the plates of food we had already consumed. It must have been that the staff were so attentive and gracious and the owner was so proud of his establishment and the quality of his food; that we just didn’t want to leave. Dessert was a choice between malva pudding with custard and ice-cream or a decadent chocolate brownie with ice-cream. These desserts were paired with a choice of coffees inspired by middle eastern flavours.

Malva Pudding and Custard and Chocolate Brownie and Ice Cream

A few months ago, I wrote a post “What’s Food Got To Do With It?” about the pressures I felt as an Indian woman to provide food and entertain in a way that was not personally pleasing to me. I think food is the vehicle that creates wonderful times for families and friends to meet and it should be enjoyable for the cook and host as well as for the guests. On that note, because Jimmy’s Ormonde is also a take-away eatery, they are now on my list of places to order from. As a mother to a daughter with a disability, sometimes what I want to prepare by myself has to be outsourced due to my child needing my attention a little more than usual. Having the option to order a meal that will make everyone happy and delight us a little too (because sometimes we all need a mood lift) , certainly makes Jimmy’s Ormonde one of my favourite eateries in the South of Johannesburg.

You don’t have to only take my word for it. Follow the links about this wonderful evening captured on  Nadia Manjate’s You Tube Channel or read about it on Nothando Mashaba’s Blog, The Diary of a 21st Century Nguni Maiden. The Concious Creative.

Thank you to everyone at Jimmy’s Ormonde, to TNC Marketing and to the one of the nicest group of foodies I’ve had the pleasure of sharing a meal with.

Today, as we celebrate Women’s Day in South Africa and my family celebrates our eldest daughter Savannah’s 22nd birthday, this guest post is a touching tribute to sisterhood, the value of relationships and love in its purest forms.  It was a great reminder to me about simply accepting life for what it is. About living in the moment and to appreciate that my daughters are much braver than I could have hoped for.

Talisa my second daughter wrote an essay for a school assessment. Yesterday when she received her score she was thrilled and as soon as I arrived home from work, she asked me to read it. I was blown away. Not only by my daughter’s writing but by the depth of her content and her bravery to share an emotional and personal story.

For Women’s Day 2018, I honour my daughters by sharing their story as written by Talisa Pillay: I Can Only Imagine.

“My worst fear is to be trapped. To be stuck with no way of escaping. To know that no matter how many times I try to break down the walls, I just end up being pushed down again: like an unwanted toy, shoved into the darkness of a cupboard. When my voice becomes one with the stale air around me.

My sullen thoughts are suddenly interrupted by a strange sound. I frown, creating creases on my forehead, as I try to riddle out where exactly the sound is coming from. I stride over to my window to hear if the sound is coming from outside. As I gaze out onto the brown, lifeless grass; I realise that the strange sound is music. It is not coming from outside but from the room next door.

A wide grin stretches across my face like the sun’s bright rays on the earth. I close my eyes and let the jumble of music dance in my ears and sail through my memories. It starts off with Whitney Houston’s ” My love is your love”, jumps to “Shake it off” by Taylor Swift, slides to Michael Jackson’s “Smooth Criminal” and ends with a bang to “Desi Girl” a beloved Bollywood song.

I’m smiling now because not only do I know all the songs from the top of my head, but I also know who is playing the songs and why. Sometimes when words fail her, music is the only way of expressing her most inner, intimate feelings. Music is entwined with her soul. Marvelous isn’t she? My older sister Savannah, my Savannah. That’s who she is.

As I open my eyes back to reality, I turn to my ancient wooden desk and see my forgotten cup of tea begging to be drunk. I let my black leather chair engulf me as I sip my now iced tea. There is a bouquet of soft white, purple and pink flowers that I catch myself staring at as though I might spot an ant on the dainty petals.

Savannah picked them out for me. She’s honestly the most humble, thoughtful human on this wide wide planet. In all fairness she shouldn’t have to be. Do you know why? Because although she has a smile that will melt ice and a laugh that will drive away your misery and a brave, precious, enduring soul; she also has a body that works against her. Yes, she is a person with complex disabilities.

Please don’t pity her or shower with bland, meaningless “You are such an angel” or “You are a special girl” but pity us people who get so annoyed for not being able to understand her slurred speech when it’s not her fault. And through all of this she still loves unconditionally and gives when we don’t deserve it.

She is the real warrior in this upside down world. I don’t know how she does it and I guess I never will. As the last drop of tea knocks against my lips, all I know is that…..I can only imagine.”

Posted with the permission of Talisa Pillay and Savannah Pillay

Happy Women’s Day to WOMEN everywhere!

 

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